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    9/20/2008

    又开始喝奶了

    题记——

    如果说一定要死,那请让我死得壮烈一点。

     

    小清早起来,泡了一杯雅士利,嘶嘶的热气,拖鞋笑了,这一包也奈何不了。

    反正拖鞋又开始喝奶了,不管是因为流血的厮杀,还是什么其他。想到拖鞋某日焦急的扳着指头算着三鹿的、伊利的、雅士利的、蒙牛的、什么的什么的,真是很傻很天真。真正可怕的永远不是被曝露在阳光下的,而那些揣摩黑魆魆的影子着实让人毛骨悚然。

    [ZZ]WHAT IS BUSINESS CASUAL?

    WHAT IS BUSINESS CASUAL?
    Subject:  Business Casual

    With the arrival of summer, it is a good time to remind everyone of the need to maintain appropriate and professional attire at all times.  Our Washington DC area locations have a large volume of customer and business partner visitors, and it is our responsibility to project the best possible image of IBM.

    Business casual may be appropriate at times, but you should not confuse business casual with casual alone.  Jeans (any color), shorts, t-shirts, caps, sneakers and tennis shoes, sandals, and athletic wear or beach wear of any kind are not appropriate in the workplace.  In general, if you have any doubt in your mind about the suitability of your attire,  it probably isn't appropriate.

    If you have any question about what is appropriate business casual attire, please talk with your manager or feel free to contact me.


    This is the text from an actual e-mail sent to IBM employees in a Washington, DC office.  There are numerous opinions regarding what type of clothing falls within the category of business casual.  Some companies consider khaki pants and short –sleeved polo shirts as business casual.  Other organizations require slacks or skirts and long-sleeved shirts when they refer to business casual.  Although there is a wide range of definitions for business casual, there are also some general rules that apply:

    •    Jeans, tennis shoes, tight or short skirts, t-shirts and sweatshirts are never considered business casual.
    •    Business casual does not apply to grooming standards.  Your appearance should remain neat and respectable.  This includes nicely pressed clothing, polished shoes, and conservative accessories.

    Business casual is defined by geographic region, industry, and individual companies.  The best way to determine a company’s standard is to conduct research or ask a company’s representative.  As always, when in doubt, dress conservatively and lean more toward the business side rather than the casual side.
    Business Casual Guidelines for Men and Women

    Business casual is crisp, neat and should look appropriate even for a chance meeting with a CEO.  It should not look like cocktail or party or picnic attire.  Avoid tight or baggy clothing; business casual is classic rather than trendy.
    Basics:  Khaki pants, neatly pressed, and a pressed long-sleeved, buttoned solid shirt are safe for both men and women.  Polo shirts, unwrinkled, are an appropriate choice if you know the environment will be quite causal, outdoors or in a very hot location.
     This may not seem like terribly exciting attire, but you are not trying to stand out for your cutting edge look, but for your good judgment in a business environment.
    Shoes/belt: Wear a leather belt and shoes.  Athletic shoes are inappropriate.

    Details:  Everything should be clean and well pressed.  Even the nicest khakis after 100 washings may not be your best choice for a reception.  Carefully inspect new clothes for tags, and all clothes for dangling threads, etc. (as with interview attire).
     
    Specifics for men’s business casual

    Ties:  Ties are generally not necessary for business casual, but if you are in doubt, you can wear a tie.  It never hurts to slightly overdress; by dressing nicely, you pay a compliment to your host.  You can always wear the tie and discreetly walk by the room where the function is held; if no one else is wearing a tie, you can discreetly remove yours.

    Shirts:  Long-sleeved shirts are considered dressier than short-sleeved and are appropriate even in summer.  Choosing white or light blue solid, or conservative stripes is your best bet.  Polo shirts, tucked in of course, are acceptable in more casual situations.

    Socks:  Wear dark socks, mid-calf length so no skin is visible when you sit down.
    Shoes:  Leather shoes should be worn.  No sandals, athletic shoes or hiking boots.
    Jewelry:  Wear a conservative watch.  If you choose to wear other jewelry, be conservative.  Removing earrings is safest.  For conservative industries, don’t wear earrings.  Observe other men in your industry to see what is acceptable.


    Specifics for women’s business casual
    Don’t confuse club attire with business attire.  If you wear it to a club, you probably should not wear it in a business environment.
    Pants/Skirts: Women can wear casual pants or skirts.  Neither should be tight.  Fabrics should be crisp; colors should generally be solid; navy, black, gray, brown, or khaki are always safe.  For the most business-like appearance, pants should be creased and tailored; neither extreme of tight or flowing.  If you are pursuing a conservative industry and are in doubt, observe well-dressed women in your industry on the job, at career fairs, at information sessions, etc.
    Skirt length and slits: Your skirt should come at least to your knees while you are standing.  While you are seated, your thighs should be covered.  If your skirt comes to just below the knee, a slit to just above the knee might be acceptable.  A very long skirt should not be slit to above the knee.  Generally, slits in the center back of a skirt—to facilitate walking or stair climbing—are acceptable.  Slits to facilitate a view of your legs are not appropriate for business purposes. Slips should not be visible.
    Shirt/sweaters: In addition to tailored shirts or blouses, tailored knit sweaters and sweater sets are appropriate business casual choices for women.  Cotton, silk, and blends are appropriate.  Velvets and shimmery fabrics suitable for parties are not appropriate.  Fit should not be tight.  Cleavage is not appropriate to business and job search occasions.

    Jewelry/accessories: Wear a conservative watch.  Jewelry and scarf styles come and go.  Keep your choices simple and leaning toward conservative.  Avoid extremes of style and color.  If your industry is creative, you may have more flexibility than someone pursuing a conservative industry.

    Shoes: Should be leather or fabric/microfiber.  Appropriate colors are black, navy and brown (to coordinate with your other attire and accessories); white and pastels are not appropriate.  For the most conservative look, toes should be covered.  Sandals that are neither extremely dressy nor extremely casual might be appropriate. Chunky heels and platforms are not appropriate.  Make certain you can walk comfortably in your shoes; hobbling around a job fair in shoes that are pinching your feet does not convey a professional image.

    Hose: Not essential for business casual, but are recommended if your skirt is knee length (rather than calf length) and in more formal environments such as hotels.
    Purse/bag: If you carry a purse, keep it small and simple.  Purse color should coordinate with your shoes.  A briefcase is certainly not necessary for most business casual events.  You may choose to carry a small briefcase or business-like tote bag in place of a purse.  Leather, microfiber and fine wovens are appropriate.  Canvas and straw are not appropriate.

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    Women parently have much more to consider about than men ...

     

    9/8/2008

    蓝莲花

    偷来一段稍微长了一点儿的当作题记..

    无论你是在火车上,汽车上或者飞机上,那近一公里便多一份激动心情是相同的。此刻看着窗外飞速穿过的物体,感觉有一阵风从脸旁吹过,那些想家的情绪伴随着许巍《蓝莲花》的第一句歌词冲口而出。听着这样的歌,我们是不会孤独的。听着这样的歌,我们也许会归于平静,回想起在异地的重重的困难,在此时或者化作几行默默的眼泪,或者化作几行浅浅的微笑,但都是欣慰的,因为我们战胜了他们的。人们在痛苦之中往往是体现不到那时苦难的重量,只有在回想起来时才感受到了他的重量。我一直是向往着远离的,一如我们飘泊的心灵。

     

    上铺拥挤狭小的空间又亦或是头靠着晃荡的列车车窗,拖鞋一般选择静静的一个人,就是那样听着这首歌。不会选择去找寻一些旅伴,这是属于我自己的空间,所以我想我一定是个孤独的旅者,以前是,现在是,以后也是。本来拖鞋以后会记得你途中发的每一条短信,但是拖鞋错了,因为现在甚至是你的人拖鞋都决定让它模糊。

    北邮没有灯光的操场,忽闪忽闪的黑影,拖鞋总和茄子塞着耳机一前一后的疯跑。茄子的大ipod很大,很沉稳,所以必须拿在手上,于是乎就腾不出手干别的了。茄子啊,拖鞋始终不够沉稳,你用ipod,那我就用nano了,不知道遥远的你没有拖鞋的陪伴还疯跑不,亦或是已经有了新的三陪呢,不知道你在疯跑的时候还会不会想起拖鞋?又亦或是拖鞋应该找一个新的三陪,然后在夜幕的东湖,忽闪忽闪的塞着耳机一前一后的疯跑。

    当你觉得内心有些积淀,泪水有些积存的时候,塞上耳塞静静去做一个孤独的旅者吧。

    亦或是正如常言道,突然有个人走进你的生活,并且重新点亮了一切。归家。

     

    9/6/2008

    张小娴的一篇文

    欺骗女人的高手 


     一个男人说,如果要欺骗一个女人而不留后患,最好不要只欺骗她的身体,要连她的感情一并欺骗.  
     
      连她的感情也欺骗,她便会以为这是一段爱情而不是一段骗局.这个男人不是纯心欺骗她,因为他也付出过感情,他做过许多另她感动的事,他曾经天天打电话给她,他曾说爱她,曾许诺永不离开,曾说过要跟她结婚.况且,他在跟她上床之后,并没有马上消失,更加证明他不是骗她.他两个月后提出分手,是因为大家合不来而不是他认为这个游戏已经玩完了,分手的时候,他表现得很难过,分手之后,他还打过几次电话给她,如果他纯心欺骗,他用不找这样做.  
     
      一个男人只要做过这些事情,女人便相信她和他那一段是短暂而灿烂的爱情而不是被人骗了.失恋的女人哀伤自怜,不单不会恨他,也许会永远怀念他。  
     
      那么,即使看到他跟另一个女人一起,她也不会来破坏好事,顶多恨他另结新欢.  
     
      骗一个女人的感情是高手,骗她的身体只能算是个低手.  
     
      要怪只好怪恋爱中的女人太愚蠢,她们总是以为只要一个男人曾经诚恳地跟她说:”你嫁给我好吗?”他便一定曾经爱过她,曾想跟她共度余生.

     

    嗯..很有道理..

     

    9/3/2008

    失眠

    说实话好久都没有失眠的感觉了,或许就是所谓的睡多了迟早都是要还的吧。那么悄悄爬上来留下一篇,当作是辗转反恻的记念了。